The couple's romance has been on the rocks in recent weeks so they meet for a chat on Sunday night to try to work through their issues, but Amber's left still angry about Chris' behaviour, while he's upset.
Things between Amber and Chris have been tense lately, with Amber accusing Chris of not taking her feelings into account or being supportive as she goes through a difficult period at home.
Chris' elder brother Jon was also brought into it, with Amber feeling he didn't like her.
Amber and Jon, however, cleared the air last week, with Jon saying he had no issue with her and would never tell Chris who he should date.
An emotional Amber ended up telling Jon why things are strained with Chris, as she felt he only ever knew Chris' side.
"I just feel every time I go to him and ring him and need to talk to him, everything is about him, how s**t he's feeling, what he's going through. I just thought, 'I'm not even ringing to moan about my mum being upset, I just need someone to lift my spirits and he weren't.
"He was making me worse. It got to the point where I thought, 'I don't want to be with him.'"
"If you don't want to be with him, you've got to tell him," advised Jon, who added he would talk to Chris and tell him he needed to understand Amber's feelings at the minute.
Amber later told the TOWIE official website: "Obviously he only ever heard Chris' side, and from what he's been saying, Chris painted a bad picture of me. Now Jon understands my point of view and where I'm coming from and I think he'll go back to Chris and say, 'You have to man up, Amber is going through quite a lot.'"
"I feel it's helped me because Jon can see where I'm coming from and that I'm not being horrible and just saying I don't want to be with Chris. There are a lot of reasons why I made that decision. "
She added: "I do miss [Chris] and care for him. He's an amazing person and has a good heart but a lot of things have happened that made me question how he felt towards me and his loyalty towards me. I have a lot going on and when times get tough will he go against me again? I don't know. We'll see what happens…"
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