On Wednesday night's episode of the ITVBe show we saw Jon approaching Amber to clear the air after he was named as one of the reasons why Amber and Chris' romance is on the rocks.
Amber feels Jon doesn't really like her, but he insisted that wasn't true, saying: "I'm not in Chris' ear saying, 'don't get back with Amber.' We are cool, we've always been cool. I am not a d*ck."
"You are," replied Amber.
"Well, I give good advice for someone who is a d*ck," said Jon.
"He loves you and wants to be there for you," continued Jon. "He loves your family. We all respect where you're coming from. We know what Chris can be like: a moody f**k. I've never seen him upset. He's crying, he won't come out of his bedroom, he's not eating. All I would say is I see you two together and you do work and have a great time. So be careful, don't throw everything away too quickly. Take your time to see how you feel and I'll speak to him and say, 'sort yourself out and man up.'"
As well as Jon being blamed for creating trouble, Amber has also said she doesn't think Chris is being as supportive as he could be during a very difficult time for her family.
Earlier in the episode she told the girls: "[Chris] turned around and said to me, 'I don't know if I can cope with your situation regarding your mum.' It's like he went into meltdown, couldn't cope and ran away."
Amber explained that to Jon and added: "I just feel every time I go to him and ring him and need to talk to him, everything is about him, how s**t he's feeling, what he's going through. I just thought, 'I'm not even ringing to moan about my mum being upset, I just need someone to lift my spirits and he weren't. He was making me worse. It got to the point where I thought, 'I don't want to be with him.'"
"If you don't want to be with him, you've got to tell him," advised Jon.
Meanwhile, Amber had a similar conversation with the girls, saying she's just confued about what happens next between her and Chris.
On last week's episode, Chris broke down in tears as he told the boys he'd "f**ked things" up with Amber and really missed her, but Amber told the girls she wasn't sure what to do.
"He got really upset the other day but I feel like he's the one saying 'I've changed, I'm the bad person in all of this' then he's crying and I have to take him back? What about my feelings and how I've felt the last three or four weeks? I've been pushed to this point because of what you've done.
"It breaks my heart… My intention was never to hurt him or make him cry. I just think I've felt I keep reaching out to him and wanting him to be there for me and he hasn't."
Amber suggested she needs to just focus on herself right now: "I don't want to hurt him but I'm hurting myself and I have to think about my own happiness. I can't just go back with someone because they've realised [they miss me]."
TOWIE continues Sunday at 10pm on ITVBe.
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